I got a nice welcoming at the post pardom Mommas tribe upon a momma inviting me there, they even changed the title to post pardon mommas and pappas..and there where alot of mommas very delighted to have a few dads, including myself..

or so I thought..

Next day I get kicked out cold turkey.
Apparently there was secret talks that i was not welcomed by a few Mommas that apparently disliked me from an unique clash I had in the Extreme Honesty Tribe, where alot of sharp elbows hang out (several mommas and many more feel the same as I do about the Extreme honesty tribe). I can see how they might not like me based on that unique experience..although I was at worse annoying never disrespectful...and hardly communicated with them...i was surpriced at how strongly they felt about me.

So they expelled me cold turkey. Imagine getting excluded like this after a warm reception?

I would like to know if I am welcomed, as a Dad, to this tribe.. or should I best leave before some of these same momma's organize a secret extradition?

I am just concerned that if I am expelled here, I will have a hard time dismissing these experiences whenever I ran across moms groups.

I hope you can empathize with my situation here.

I conside myself a compassionate person.. aware parenthood is something I inspire and am In many respects. I am a dad of two twin girls (1 month old).

From where I come from, I am neither only a male, or only a female, I am neither and I am both--it's a vajrayana buddhist thing. This is why I feel fine being in groups such as this.

So I would kindly ask you: Am I welcomed as a Dad, as a human, here?